I lost my transfriend :(

[xXRebeccaXx]

Tonight I got a message from her...well him I guess, this is what it said " yea I'm done with the TS stuff for now, I guess it was a phase. I will however, continue to support you and your life choices."

[Kreuzfidel]

Seems like they're still a friend, though, as they are offering to support you.  Truth is, it can be a phase for some - doesn't mean you've no longer got transfriends...you're at Susan's still

[Anon]

It's sorta weird she called it a 'life choice', but I agree with Kreuzfidel and you've still got all of us!

[Cindy]

Seems odd, maybe she is having a panic attack after meeting someone else with similar problems. Sort of: OMG I don't want anyone to know.

[AbraCadabra]

Well even trans-'friends' come and go.

In what I'm seeing it often can be the only REAL thing you have in common - being trans - ...

I have pretty well lost two, the only two I KNOW! in my life environment. They too busy with their own issues it seems.

They don't seem to care much for me unless they NEED something. Trans-folks are not THAT different from most other folks in this regard.

Need something... see Axélle. Otherwise, getting on with my own show. These in the end are simply acquaintances, whether you like it or not.

Axélle

[Natkat]

hmm I know people like that who seam to claim they want to be boys or girls but later seam to "grow out of it"
its sorta confussing but if i like them then it dosen't matter what gender they are anyway.

[Constance]

Seems like they're still a friend, though, as they are offering to support you.  Truth is, it can be a phase for some - doesn't mean you've no longer got transfriends...you're at Susan's still

I think this pretty much sums it up.

I stopped and restarted transition. It could happen in this case, too.