when you get SRS won't most states also amend your gender marker on your birth certificate, I live in the state of Virginia at the moment, i hope i will be able to legally marry the man I love when I have my surgery. I would not want to legally be his husband cause that just seems wrong. Since I am a girl.

Legal requirements each state has for amending the sex on one's birth certificate.
Changing sex on birth certificate
requires notice from surgeon that performed SRS1 Changing sex on birth certificate
requires court order Changing sex on birth certificate
requires approval of state registrar State does not change sex on birth
certificates for those who undergo SRS1New York City issues its own birth certificates and requires a court order in order to amend the sex on such a certificate.
2Some Texas officials have refused to amend the sex on birth certificates after the ruling Littleton v. Prange; however, a court may order a change of sex on a birth certificate.
at least you don't live in one of those red states, altho florida is blue / red so I don't know what that means,
Like other states, California will amend birth certificates only for California natives currently living in California. However, unlike other states, postoperative residents of California born outside California may obtain a court-ordered change of name and gender
perhaps you should move to California , the state is far more progressive. i plan to do so maybe later this year.