Joey - you look pretty good to me, I think you'd suit a sort of quiff though, but that's just my opinion, and I'm pretty bad with hair stuff.
Liminal Stranger - I can see you as male easier than female, but It could go either way, especially if it was in a setting where your age is obvious - I'm assuming you're not actually 13. Is the hair mostly, but I can see some resemblance to Nick Drake.