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You'd prefer to be born a bombshell trans or an ordinary looking bio woman?

Started by Sad Girl, March 18, 2012, 08:58:14 AM

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Annah

i dont know the difference between the two. They are both women to me.

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Naturally Blonde

Re: You'd prefer to be born a bombshell trans or an ordinary looking bio woman?

My answer: Either would suit me!
Living in the real world, not a fantasy
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pebbles

Natal woman.  not even a hard choice for me.
I don't need memories like these.
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Kelly J. P.

 Probably be born cis. A bombshell trans and a cis don't really differ much in lessons learned, so I might as well go with the one that can have children.
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angelfaced

Quote from: x zOeY x on March 18, 2012, 09:12:26 AM
#1

Transsexuals are never beautiful. You might choose some that have had $$$$$$$'s of surgery and say they're beautiful, but they still have very obvious male features.
i disagree, i have not had  any facial surgery at all and i am gorgeous. however to stay on topic, i was put through alot prior to transition. i think i would choose to just be a bio female, my life has been tough and i would not go through it again, no matter how great i looked. I have friends that will never pass, but they still have all of thier family. I envy them sometimes.
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azSam

Bio woman. I would happily give up my life as a transwoman, even with all of it's perks (and yes there are a few), just to be able to bear children. I'm frankly desperate to have children.
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Joeyboo~ :3

I suppose I'd rather be a very good looking trans girl.
It's character.

I don't care for giving birth lol, stretch marks, and then I'd need a tummy tuck to fix the mess bearing just one child made.
I'd most likely hate my kid.
I don't have that motherly love or whatever.

oh, and if I wasn't trans, I would have never met Jay. :3
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Amazon D

We have transceded gender to the spirit below. we are beautiful inside and thats what counts.
I'm an Amazon womyn + very butch + respecting MWMF since 1999 unless invited. + I AM A HIPPIE

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Raya

Meh.

I really don't see this as an either/or thing. Medicine is doing some amazing things with stem cells and gene therapy. I'll go so far as to say that I'm confident a lot of us here will live to see the first transsexual woman give birth. For my own case, everything I know about bearing children and menstruation puts it squarely in the "be careful what you wish for" category.

As for beauty, beautiful? Beautiful to whom? Depending on who you're talking to, "beautiful" can be quite creepy. Having my worth being determined by how attractive porn-fueled straight white cis men find me is one of the things I'm looking forward to least.

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Jillieann Rose

I have no doubt at all.
#1 is the only choice for me.
To be an ordinary bio women and not trans would be a dream come true.
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Alyx.

I dunno. Part of me says that obviously I'd have a better time as a natal girl.

But my experiences made me who I am. I'm terrified that if I was born a girl I wouldn't be me anymore, or I'd just find something else terrible about my life that isn't as easily fixable. Or maybe there were parts about being a guy I liked.

Better the Devil you know then the Devil you don't. :s It's a tough decision for me.

I'm terrified of being simply "ordinary".
If you do not agree to my demands... TOO LATE
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MacKenzie


Option 1.....I don't think anybody actually wants to be trans bombshell or not.  :laugh:
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King Malachite

On the flip side I'd rather be an average looking bio male.

Looks usually fade away with time.

Having the ability to give a woman a child would be awesome.

For me it's not worth all the pain just to be a gorgeous trans male if I could be a bio male.
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inna

Definitely choose ME, just as life had given me an opportunity to feel pain and anguish it gave me ability to brake the bonds of bondage I was sentenced so early on to bare. Truth gave me life, life gave me love and love gave me beauty, I would never ever want to walk in anyone else shoes.........unless of course those would be some fab heels then maybe :p
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Stephe

I have zero interest in being "A bomb shell". IMHO other women will hate you, men will objectfy you and you have very little chance of anyone actually getting to know who you are as a person. I've known a few, most learn to abuse their good looks to get what they want and are shallow people as a result. Of course not all are, but many fall into this stereotype. All I ever wanted was to be a normal everyday woman who is semi attractive, I feel that's exactly what I am now and that's just fine. On the being trans or not, I'm happy with my life and don't think it would have been that much better if I had been born female, just been easier but less exciting :P
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Gretchen

Plain old average generic genetic woman any day of the week would suit me just fine, as a fantasy or a dream. It's been a really hard row to plow, but even though there were many rocks that had to be picked out to get to the other end of the field I probably would change very little of my life up to this point. I am an obvious trans woman and would love to be able to dump a ton more cash into my transition to make myself more of a generic looking genetic woman, but it's just not going to happen. So I'll make the best out of what I have and not torture myself with, what if's? This life the way it is is just so unique and mind expanding that the only way I would change it would be through reincarnation, but I don't necessarily believe in reincarnation so I'll just stick with the way I was born in the first place. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder?
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mementomori

2 . periods and risk of getting pregnant, no thanks!  ( i never want children ever and thats something im certain of so genitals are only for sexual pleasue for me , reproduction is useeless to me ) ,, and id hate to look ordinary i want to be different/ unique / beautifal
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Dana_H

Well, I regard both ciswomen and transwomen as women, but I'd choose being cis if the choice were mine to make simply as a matter of self-identity. As for beauty, I think I'd rather be "average" than a bombshell no matter what kind of body I'm in. But then, the gals and guys I am attracted to generally fall in the "average" category anyway. The bombshell look just feels like gilding the lily to me. (Plus, I'm a sucker for freckles and dimples.) I really do see beauty as a very subjective characteristic.

Heck, I'd even accept being in an "ugly" body if it meant I could be cis. (I don't believe anyone is truly ugly if the soul is good. Hate is the source of true ugliness in my view.)

Since the choice is not mine to make, I'll just do the best I can with what I've been given and be thankful that I have my health.
Call me Dana. Call me Cait. Call me Kat. Just don't call me late for dinner.
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