FFS and BA with passing.

[Tristan]

So i guess i should have not been shocked when passing as male became hard after FFS and My BA? For some reason i thought it would have taken alot longer. was it this way for anyone else? i mean for work and school it was just like POW!! instant female. haha

[Jamie D]

Funny how those things workout, huh?

[Trans Truth]

You're right - you wouldn't pass as male unless you tried too.

[hiddenflame]

Isn't that the point?

[Kelly J. P.]

 I look forward to the same... not being able to pass as male would be a dream.

[susanewing]

I was always small and feminine so I had and easier time passing than others. Once I had my beard  removed, my BA and HRT softened my skin I could now longer pass as a male. I actually had to present as a male one day and the person I met told me there was no way I was a male. Beard removal in my opinion was the most important factor in my case. Facial hair is a dead giveaway.

Susan

[Bird]

Voice works as well.

I don't have money for expensive surgeries, but once I sorted my voice out and had the facial hair gone, I began passing.

[aibeecee]

yup it is the point. i just thoght it would take more time. im liking it though.

I'm so happy for you, Tristan. 

I can't wait to have my own FFS but from another perspective it is sad that social integration and acceptance depend so much on physical appearance. I have a sister, she is so beautiful, works as a hostess and model and every time we go out at the mall all men smile at her...but not at me although I pass quite well.

We can't change this but only try to adapt as best as we can.

[Apples]

Sad thing to say it myself, but... BA is the easiest way to avoid people looking at your face (and probably even more useful than FFS).

It's a men's thing. As they told me prior to my first job interview... "If the interviewer is a woman, try to look on the eyes and not the cleavage!"

[MariaMx]

Sad thing to say it myself, but... BA is the easiest way to avoid people looking at your face (and probably even more useful than FFS).

I don't know. I had FFS 8 years ago and BA this summer. Having FFS was as if flicking a switch from OFF to ON. I instantly started passing consistently even without makeup and hair in a pony tail. Later that year I hired a new girl at my workplace and my other co-workers were "nice" enough to wait 3 months before they outed me to her. She couldn't believe I wasn't born female. I don't think a BA would have had the same effect.

It's a men's thing. As they told me prior to my first job interview... "If the interviewer is a woman, try to look on the eyes and not the cleavage!"

The other day I went shopping and ran into an old friend. I noticed he would constantly sneaked quick peaks at my boobs while talking to me, so yeah, guys do that 

[Apples]

I don't think a BA would have had the same effect.

In the sense that men can't look at any other place, xD.

Only one possible solution:

yeah they really do. and to think i did all this for a guy. i think he loves me now 

Every time time I see your avatar I don't know if I want to have those on my chest, or just reconsider transitioning and go back to full hetero mode... I'm a pervert, I'm a pervert, I'm a pervert...