Misgendered...again....

[Jayr]

Because the second I said plugs might not help, it was invalidated.
Yes, I love plugs. But it doesn't help some of us. I was just saying.
I'm not retarded, I know some guys can look HOT with them and pass fine.

By chips, I mean put all the chances on your side too pass. Don't put anything against you.
Ear piercings can feminize people.

But you're right, you didn't ask for advice. So my bad.
I assumed you wanted them. Sorry. Keep on venting.

[Nygeel]

Because the second I said plugs might not help, it was invalidated.
Yes, I love plugs. But it doesn't help some of us. I was just saying.
I'm not retarded, I know some guys can look HOT with them and pass fine.

By chips, I mean put all the chances on your side too pass. Don't put anything against you.
Ear piercings can feminize people.

But you're right, you didn't ask for advice. So my bad.
I assumed you wanted them. Sorry. Keep on venting.

Plugs were mentioned twice before you posted. In previous conversations they've been mentioned many many times before.

The issue with what you're saying is that there's no one way to do what you're saying. I've been experimenting with most every aspect of my appearance for years.

And please, could you cut the language.

[supremecatoverlord]

Because the second I said plugs might not help, it was invalidated.
Yes, I love plugs. But it doesn't help some of us. I was just saying.
I'm not retarded, I know some guys can look HOT with them and pass fine.

By chips, I mean put all the chances on your side too pass. Don't put anything against you.
Ear piercings can feminize people.

But you're right, you didn't ask for advice. So my bad.
I assumed you wanted them. Sorry. Keep on venting.

Like me.


lolololjk.
Well, about the hot thing, not the passing.

[Jayr]

And please, could you cut the language.

I only cursed once. But okay.

Like me.


lolololjk.
Well, about the hot thing, not the passing.

You won't believe me but I had you in mind.
XD

[Joeyboo~ :3]

Like me.


lolololjk.
Well, about the hot thing, not the passing.

I think you and Jayr are both hot with plugs.

Orgy.

[supremecatoverlord]

I only cursed once. But okay.

You won't believe me but I had you in mind.
XD

Surprisingly, I shall try to.

[Jayr]

I think you and Jayr are both hot with plugs.

Orgy.

o.o

*puts them back in!*

[wheat thins are delicious]

I only cursed once. But okay.

Pretty sure Nygeel means your use of a slur that is commonly directed at people with intellectual disabilities.

[KamTheMan]

That was mature. Don't come to our area of the forum if you're going to try and push someone's buttons, it's not nice. Can we get back to making Nygeel feel better about his unfortunate situation?

[Joeyboo~ :3]

That was mature. Don't come to our area of the forum if you're going to try and push someone's buttons, it's not nice. Can we get back to making Nygeel feel better about his unfortunate situation?

SURE BUD.

[Jayr]

She was being funny.
Chill.

[KamTheMan]

You're both right, I'm such an a$$hole 

[Joeyboo~ :3]

You're both right, I'm such an a$$hole 

Woah bro, woah.
We never said that bro.

CHILL BRO

[KamTheMan]

i'm completely calm and laughing my a$$ off. i love how people get online, ohhh it's the internet, i can say whatever i want yayy! you'd think people would want to stay positive whenever possible since this is a support forum. oh well.

Nygeel, one day you'll look back on this shizzy time and laugh. You pass 100% in pictures, so it will happen regularly eventually. Hold on bro, I wish I could do more.

Peace.

[Jayr]

Huh?
What was that about?
o.o

And I agree! Maybe you're just a late bloomer.

[Dane]

Whoa, let's not be abrasive. I'm detecting some madness around here.

Anyways, Nygeel, I've always thought you've passed in pictures, even with my hyper aware of small things kind of brain. It might just be how you carry yourself or something I think once you get some facial hair there will be no question, because you look male to me, no matter what you wear. I dunno, just my opinion, man.

[V M]

 

Hi friends

Let keep the conversation civil and supportive, watch the language and/or disparaging comments

Thank you

V M

[insideontheoutside]

I'm starting to get to a place where I like who I am. It seems disingenuous to try to behave in a way I'm not comfortable with.

Then why let people misgendering you bother you now? If you're getting to that place where you're happy with yourself and comfortable with yourself, other people's interpretations shouldn't sway you.

[Jayr]

Then why let people misgendering you bother you now? If you're getting to that place where you're happy with yourself and comfortable with yourself, other people's interpretations shouldn't sway you.

+1

[lexical]

Then why let people misgendering you bother you now? If you're getting to that place where you're happy with yourself and comfortable with yourself, other people's interpretations shouldn't sway you.

Well, it's possible to be comfortable with who you are but at the same time frustrated with people's inability to see the true you. And I think it's the fact that it's happening more often than not for nygeel. He's done all of these things to improve his "passability" but has had little success. After a certain point what more can you do? I would think it's a very tough place to be in. And plus it's more than just not letting other people's interpretations bother you because you can't really be yourself socially when people are treating you like a female when you're not. Not to say that people are treated worse as females, it's just a very different experience (at least it has been for me).