"Everybody dies but not everybody lives"
My life before~ If you could call that living. Introverted, poor relationships. Seriously, I wasn't even sociable on online games. Im not even out. My life is better now that I'm changing. Much better. Even if the GD gets more severe now sometimes. Seriously, you can take a look at pre-photos. Almost never do they look happy unless they are: A) Drinking or B) In some social situation.
Honestly, I doubt we have much shorter life times if you remove suicide. The only real fear from being trans is liver failure (which I don't think is a problem given certain types of delivery systems), DVTs. Which are preventable if you are slightly careful, and probably not a problem period unless you are older, and we do gain I think a risk of breast cancer that's comparable to womens (genetic)