I would rather be harassed by everyone around me for being who I truly am. >-bleeped-<, they do it about everything besides my gender already, so it's no biggie for me. I'm just the broken thumb on the happy hand I guess.
Would you rather....
A. Have a partner who loved you and depended on you, but never told you so, couldn't express physical affection, and barely touched you (autism spectrum disorder)
or
B. Have a partner who didn't need you, whom you weren't completely sure really loved you, although they told you so all the time, lavished you with physical affection and pillow talk ?