Quote from: Jamie D on May 04, 2012, 01:40:13 AM
Something strikes me the wrong way when one of the rich and famous complains about how tough life is.
how did I "judge" Andrej Pejic?
If it strikes you the wrong way, then you're saying they shouldn't complain. That's a judgement. And just because a person has a profession where they make a lot of money, doesn't mean that suddenly what's inside of them disappears. They're just people. Same as you or I.
If someone wrote "something strikes me the wrong way when transgendered people complain about how tough life is"...... you wouldn't feel judged?
Judgement isn't just "You're shallow"..... it's also, "that shirt is ugly", or "this is stupid". A shirt can't be ugly. A shirt is only a shirt. If you find it ugly, it's how you feel about it that makes it that way. Because the person wearing it feels it's cute. So the shirt is just a shirt. Opinion is looking inward "I personally wouldn't wear that shirt" Judgement lashes out "That shirt is ugly".