Just some visual inspiration.

Do you think this guy is self-conscious of his curvy hips? Probably not.
It's easy to forget that not all men have those idealistic, "perfect" shapes. There's a lot of variation there. When I saw this guy I thought to myself, wow, he's more ripped but basically has the same hips I do (and by hips I don't mean that V-shape that starts at the crest of the hips).