sensitivity , increase or decrease or stay the same ?

[mementomori]

one thing i was curious about has anyone had a increase in genital sensitivity after srs , say as a result of nerves that werent exposed now being exposed, or generally does it always decrease in sensetivity or stay the same

[lilacwoman]

due to being held back for srs  too long I had to have a colo-vaginoplasty which meant most of the sensitive penis skin was cut off and lacking the sensitive outer and interior of the GG then I have to say I definitely lost a lot and won't be getting any as I lack the genital skin that does provide the sexy feelings.

this is the reason why surgery needs to be done before the penis and scrotum shrinks too much.

[mementomori]

due to being held back for srs  too long I had to have a colo-vaginoplasty which meant most of the sensitive penis skin was cut off and lacking the sensitive outer and interior of the GG then I have to say I definitely lost a lot and won't be getting any as I lack the genital skin that does provide the sexy feelings.

this is the reason why surgery needs to be done before the penis and scrotum shrinks too much.

that absolutely sucks , hopefully one day medical science will catch up and be able to repair nerves , so that can be fixed

how come is youre situation

[mementomori]

common*

[mementomori]

there seems to be a lot of disagreement about shrinkage from hormones , a lot of my friends say they havent experienced any at all  after years of being on hormones and then some others say that they did experience it quite quickly .

[lilacwoman]

well when I saw the first surgeon he said 'in case like you I can only make a slit not a proper vagina'  so it is common but of course there doesn't seem any statistics about it and considering the variation in original penises it may be that surgeons are regularly faced with little ones but aren't concerned whether its naturally small or shrunken from hormones and disuse.

[Deila]

well my orgasms are wayyy better now then before, i dont need a vibrator or anything just rubbing gets me to orgasm very quickly. I dont wanna be too graphic but I  am verrrry happy with my sensations, now if only my vagina would loosen up and relax so i didnt still have to dilate multiple times a day 10 months post op id be perfect lol.

[lilacwoman]

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I found that not dilating but just using jelly and a finger made it relax and surgeon said same so perhaps you could try the same?

Can we assume that getting a new vagina to open up is not the same as getting a penis into action and just like a GGs vagina
ours need the right frame of mind to relax and not the 'time to accept the dilator' approach?

[~RoadToTrista~]

due to being held back for srs  too long I had to have a colo-vaginoplasty which meant most of the sensitive penis skin was cut off and lacking the sensitive outer and interior of the GG then I have to say I definitely lost a lot and won't be getting any as I lack the genital skin that does provide the sexy feelings.

this is the reason why surgery needs to be done before the penis and scrotum shrinks too much.

Was that from the inversion technique?

[Siren]

For me sensitivity has increased, but not in a good way. My bf cannot touch my clitoris as it's just way too sensitive to the point of being painful. I could even think about having it removed.
As for erogenous feeling, that has decreased. The genital area doesn't give the same pleasurable sensations that it did before surgery, although it is still sensitive enough to produce orgasm, but orgasms are weaker.
There is some sensation internally but I haven't had sex yet so I don't know whether it would be pleasurable or not.

Edit: I should add, I'm 1.5yrs post-op.

[mementomori]

[quote author=Deila l still have to dilate multiple times a day 10 months post op id be perfect lol.


I found that not dilating but just using jelly and a finger made it relax and surgeon said same so perhaps you could try the same?

Can we assume that getting a new vagina to open up is not the same as getting a penis into action and just like a GGs vagina
ours need the right frame of mind to relax and not the 'time to accept the dilator' approach?

i hope this doesnt sound too vulgar but is it similiar in how you have to relax the muscles for anal sex , be in the right frame of mind etc , i know if your stressed or dont trust them person/ are nervous that whole area contracts and you cant get anything inside

is it like that with a neovagina , sorry if that question sounds ridiculious lol / ignorant

[lilacwoman]

ugh.  never tried anal sex but I do know the anal muscle is definitely not intended for more than a few seconds use so if it can be made to relax then its outside my experience and likely to stay that way.

I do know the the muscle does weaken to the point that 'messy leaking' is a serious issue for analists and had a pre-op friend whose b/f preferred anal sex until eventualy the pre-op needed a very expensive and serious op that has forever ruined the natural anal situation.
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this nervous tightening reflex is what that stupid woman doctor claimed was the sign that all those children had been anally sex abused in north of UK some years back.
All thsoe of us who have chnaged and washed our babies know that their little anusses tighten up when washed so why this stupoid doctor took that as a sign of sex abuse must mean she is pretty sick in the head?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cleveland_child_abuse_scandal

[mementomori]

ugh.  never tried anal sex but I do know the anal muscle is definitely not intended for more than a few seconds use so if it can be made to relax then its outside my experience and likely to stay that way.

I do know the the muscle does weaken to the point that 'messy leaking' is a serious issue for analists and had a pre-op friend whose b/f preferred anal sex until eventualy the pre-op needed a very expensive and serious op that has forever ruined the natural anal situation.
..................................

this nervous tightening reflex is what that stupid woman doctor claimed was the sign that all those children had been anally sex abused in north of UK some years back.
All thsoe of us who have chnaged and washed our babies know that their little anusses tighten up when washed so why this stupoid doctor took that as a sign of sex abuse must mean she is pretty sick in the head?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cleveland_child_abuse_scandal

im a bit skeptical of that i know people who have had anal sex for years and never had that problem

[lilacwoman]

go ask the doctors of male prisons.

[mementomori]

go ask the doctors of male prisons.

rape is a little bit different than consensual sex , it can also damage a womans vagina badly

[elle2011]

Excuse me... I dont know why, but I cringe every time I read these posts lol... 40somethingmm etc, veiny, la la, TMI maybe?

[lilacwoman]

rape is a little bit different than consensual sex , it can also damage a womans vagina badly

my pre-op friend wasn't being raped but still had to have a painful messy op that has left her with a lifelong problem.

[mementomori]

my pre-op friend wasn't being raped but still had to have a painful messy op that has left her with a lifelong problem.

maybe he boyfriend was ruff ? you can assume she is telling you all the details  . i find it a little disturbing how youre using terms like analists etc . you should spread flawed information . its not different to people spreading disinformation and ignorance about sexual reassigment surgery

[elle2011]

Very much post op and don't be offended its just a lot for a 22 year old to take in I guess

[Deila]

[quote author=Deila l still have to dilate multiple times a day 10 months post op id be perfect lol.


I found that not dilating but just using jelly and a finger made it relax and surgeon said same so perhaps you could try the same?

Can we assume that getting a new vagina to open up is not the same as getting a penis into action and just like a GGs vagina
ours need the right frame of mind to relax and not the 'time to accept the dilator' approach?

for me its not so much a relaxation issue usually, i tried to go down to dilating once a day and i literally woke up only able to get a pen inside myself one morning i was like theres no way i went through 9 months of this for nothing so i relaxed used the pen and then eventually had to shove my smallest dilator in, the sensation was close to what it feels like scraping your knee on concret but im not complaining because i got it in so now im using my 2 smallest dilators twice a day whichj isnt so bad and im gonna work up to my largest  dilator and im not gonna bother trying once a day again until all my dilatotors just slide right in. Im also looking into getting a smallish jelly dildoe to just leave inside for a few hours a day.