I am using one now when I am at home. I am not even trying to pass or thinking that I would want to. ID more as androgyne. I've found it makes me feel better somehow. So it is irrelevant to how it looks as a packer. Not looking for STP, as I think I am failing. :-}
Anyway, what I want to know is which one feels best-- not too hard or too squishy, that sort of thing.
I have a Mr. Limpy, and I think it is way squishy.
--Jay Jay