I am using one now when I am at home. I am not even trying to pass or thinking that I would want to. ID more as androgyne. I've found it makes me feel better somehow. So it is irrelevant to how it looks as a packer. Not looking for STP, as I think I am failing. :-}

Anyway, what I want to know is which one feels best-- not too hard or too squishy, that sort of thing.
I have a Mr. Limpy, and I think it is way squishy.

--Jay Jay

I think if the Mr Limpy is too squishy for you, the GV Sailor Soft would be your best bet besides the really expensive stuff like the Reel Magik.  The GV packer has a firmer inner core so it gives it a bit more form.

I use the Packy - not sure if it's the same thing as the Mr. Limpy or not.

gv soft pack is the best, with regards to feel.