Pantie Help

[Brooke777]

I am pre-op, and am having a difficult time finding panties that fit just right.  I wear a size 4, and have only found one style that works.  They are low cut bikini, cotton, from Haynes.  The problem with them is I can't be too active.  If I even attempt to run things fall out.  I tried a size 4 boy short cut since it has more fabric, but they are too loose.  Do any of you ladies have some suggestions on a brand, and style I could try. I want cotton because it breaths better, but finding size 4 is not too easy.  Thanks in advance for any help you can provide

[Ms. OBrien CVT]

You could try a gaff or a panty girdle.  Some have used the top portion of a pair of control-top nylons.

[Brooke777]

I am really hoping to not have to use a gaff or girdle.  The low cut bikini give me a good line.  I was hoping to find a cut that could hold things in when I am a bit more active than just walking around.

[Ms. OBrien CVT]

Have you tried using a pad?  It can help hold things in place.  There is also panties called "period panties",  They are a little wider in the crotch.  Not sure on the styles however.

[Renee D]

Have you tried taping?  Some good grade medical tape works well, even for swimming and you can get it in 3 inch widths.

[Brooke777]

No, I haven't tried using a pad or taping.  Would taping hurt when I am active (like running)?  I am not sure if a pad will work too well since my problem is keeping the two things up where they go.  But...I am willing to try just about anything.

[Renee D]

No, I haven't tried using a pad or taping.  Would taping hurt when I am active (like running)?  I am not sure if a pad will work too well since my problem is keeping the two things up where they go.  But...I am willing to try just about anything.

I actually tape for two to three days at a time. Its never hurt me yet and I have ran, walked, swam, etc with no issues. I do use a good breathable tape and do it in such as way that going to the restroom is no issue and it holds up fine when getting wet. I prefer Medipore, but Durapore works ok too, but doesn't adhere as long. Both are 3m tapes.  I don't sweat much, so cleanliness isn't an issue. Others' experiences could be different and you'd probably want to start out with shorter taped times until you learn how you may react to it.   

[Brooke777]

Jaime, thank you for the advice.  I will have to look into those.

[Natkat]

I once saw a video on youtube, where someone had 2 underpants,
the first one where tight and used to hold it in place.. where you put the snake behind, and pull the pants up like a G-string.
(kind of hard to explain)
and then you used normal underpants outside the first one.

I havent tried it so I dont know how it is,

[nicole99]

I always wore two pairs of panties at once. I found that worked quite well. Even when things slipped out it still held things in close enough.

[jainie marlena]

I was having the problem of stuff falling out. I try something new. I slipped a sock over it and tucked it and  pulling the sock up the back. the sock holds it in place so it's not falling to either side of panties. Works for me. it's not very bulcky either.

[Annah]

there are a lot of panties that are microfiber bikini cut that is made where you wont have that problem.

[Brooke777]

Thank you all for taking the time to help me.  I really appreciate it.

[Cindy]

Tucking should help

[Floritine]

2 pairs of knickers one a bikini and the other a support briefs on the outside with a liner to absorb moisture works well, I found the problem with normal pads is they is more bulk and are more noticeable when wearing tight shorts or pants, but what works for one will differ from the next person so don't be afraid to experiment with different options till you find what works best for you....

Cheers Tracy

[Naturally Blonde]

Tucking should help

I tried Tucking many years ago, it was so awful and very uncomfortable. I'm lucky my appendage is quite small now and tucking isn't needed.

[Brooke777]

Thanks ladies.  I so tuck.  I use the method of putting the acorns in my abdomen, and putting the tree between my legs.  With the right bikini it stays put quite well assuming I do not try to run.  So far, it seems that most others use two pairs of panties.  I think that will probably be my next test.  I cannot use a pad because right now I am married, and my wife is already uncomfortable with me just wearing panties. So...until she is more comfortable, or leaves me I will have to avoid pads.

[Renee D]

in that case, you'd likely want to avoid the taping too.  Try looking around online for a gaff, I've never used one but I imagine it would stay more stable than an extra pair of panties.

[A]

(This is assuming you aren't planning to show your underwear or torso to anyone.)

For now, I'm still using my male underwear (Snob boxers), and they work fine, mostly. I tuck, then I pull them up (UP, like, they almost reach my chest), and it mostly holds things well. Since there's a lot of "surface", it just can't slip out. The only issue is that it tends to go down with my pants, which have that nasty habit because I don't have enough hips for them, but then, a discreet (or not) pull does the job. And if I don't do it too hastily, it can hold on even when I run.

The cool thing is that since this underwear covers a large surface, even if the tucking doesn't hold, it doesn't make anything visible (or hardly so); everything stays downwards/backwards, just not tightly. That's because this model doesn't have a "pocket" in the front for the parts. Since there's no extra room in the front, the parts don't tend to go there.

[K Style Addiction]

I once saw a video on youtube, where someone had 2 underpants,
the first one where tight and used to hold it in place.. where you put the snake behind, and pull the pants up like a G-string.
(kind of hard to explain)
and then you used normal underpants outside the first one.

I havent tried it so I dont know how it is,

That's what i do and so far it has worked.