I'm not sure if i am a transgender female or not? Please help me

[heho07]

I am 20 years olds and i think i am soft and emotional person.
When i look at nude women pictures i want to be a woman and specially want to have feminine looking breast and butt.
I also like to wear women`s underwear and clothes and remove my body hair.
I am following natural breast enlargement program for about 1 year and am really happy with my new slightly bigger breast.
I do not know if i am a transgender female or i have sexual(breast) fetish.
Please help me.

[Devlyn]

Hi heho07, welcome to Susans! You have come to the right place for your journey of self discovery. There are plenty of people who will share their experiences with you. Take a look at our Rules and Terms of Service in the Announcements section, they're a short read. See you around, hugs, Devlyn

[NotThereYet]

Hi Heho07,

One question that you might want to ask yourself is: do you get aroused when you have fantasies about being a woman?
Also, do you feel emotionally happier when you envision yourself as a woman?

For the rest, being 20, you are still very young.. At your age I felt the same, you know.

I hope this helps.

Andi

[heho07]

Thanks for your replies.

One question that you might want to ask yourself is: do you get aroused when you have fantasies about being a woman?

No.

Also, do you feel emotionally happier when you envision yourself as a woman?

Yes.

Is this mean that i am a transgender female?

[justmeinoz]

It sounds like a pointer.  Is there a local therapist where you are who could help you delve a little deeper.  A local GLBTI support group could help find one, and would be good to get in touch with anyway, if available.

Karen.

[heho07]

It sounds like a pointer.  Is there a local therapist where you are who could help you delve a little deeper.  A local GLBTI support group could help find one, and would be good to get in touch with anyway, if available.

Karen.

What a good news.
I'm really happy that found some sigh of transgender in myself finally.
Thanks.

[Sephirah]

Is there a local therapist where you are who could help you delve a little deeper.

I would second this.

Also, before you come to any sort of conclusion one way or the other, there is one more question to maybe have a think about, and it's the same question with regard to nearly everything you've talked about so far:

When i look at nude women pictures i want to be a woman and specially want to have feminine looking breast and butt.

I also like to wear women`s underwear and clothes and remove my body hair.

I am following natural breast enlargement program for about 1 year and am really happy with my new slightly bigger breast.

I'm really happy that found some sigh of transgender in myself finally.

Why? What feelings do you experience with each of the above statements?

You don't have to answer that here, hon. But have a think about it. Knowing what you want is one thing, but to really understand yourself on a deeper level, knowing why you want it is, perhaps, more important.

[NotThereYet]

Hi! :-)

Of course your whole situation is hard to assess and discuss right here, right now, on a forum, but we started from your question on whether you are TG or you have a fetish: giving the lack of arousal, and your other statements, I would say that a fetish is probably to rule out, but once again, like Sephira said, your introspection is very important. That, and also your eventual therapy sessions are more important than anybody's opinion on a forum or elsewhere.

That said, I would encourage you not to repress any feelings and thoughts and instead investigate into them.

Please, tell us more about yourself and how you perceive your own body: that might also help shed some light.

I hope this helps and kind regards,
Andi