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Social Experiment: What do you see?

Started by ShawnTOShawnna, June 03, 2012, 02:47:55 PM

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Shawn Sunshine

  :angel: Ok I am conducting a bit of a social experiment here. I am presenting to you a picture. I already know what the picture is of and what I see, but I want to know what you all see. I want to hear from all types of people. I also want you to tell me what you see now vs what you would have seen in the picture before you started exploring the issues you are dealing with and before you started transitioning. I know what I see in this picture, but I want your honest opinion about the two people in the picture. Take 1 minute to study it, and tell me what you think is taking place and who you think the people in the picture are and how they each look, pay special attention to what you see in the face and the eyes. Try to be detailed but don't over analyze it.

I will post what it actually is after I have heard a few responses and what I see in the picture.  ;)

*You will need to click on the picture to see it in detail*


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Plain Jane

Looks like a prom or something like that?

I see a girl in her middle to late teens (maybe 16~18?) and a boy in his early to middle teens (13~14) who is tall for his age and too young to be wearing a tux.

My first inclination is that these people are related to each other. Can't really tell you why I say that.



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Naturally Blonde

Photoshop trickery? both pics are the same person taken at different times?
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Chrissty

I'm sure there's more to this picture than the obvious (as you will point out)..

...but at first glance the picture is of happy confident girl, shy and introvert guy..
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~RoadToTrista~

The guy looks like a tall 13 year old who's weird and awkward to be around and the girl looks like a mormon-republican zombie. The girl is all happy faced and the guy is nervous. Both of them have ugly hairstyles, and the picture is kinda fuzzy so it's probably an old picture. They both look a couple years younger than me so I guess they're going to homecoming.
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A

Uhm, most likely... The official picture of a couple for their end-of-studies ball? One with a weird theme, or one from another age when fashion was especially weird. I'm hesitating between a picture at the ball (because of the blue thingies) and one at home before leaving (because of the folding screen that doesn't have anything to do with a party). Or the extremely special wedding of an especially young couple, if it's them, or just with a weird theme.

The guy...
-He looks uneasy. He is either upset ("not a picture again" or "wtf is with this bow tie?") or very uneasy or nervous about the event itself or his partner.
-Since his hair is messy despite wearing formal wear, it may be that he was forced into all of this, or that he really did not care at all about any of this. Or maybe this was all very sudden and he had to come at the last minute or fill in for someone. Plus, it doesn't look like his clothes are properly worn (I think the vest is usually tied higher..?)
-He doesn't seem like he's very happy overall, regardless of his feelings for the event. Is he being forced on a career course he doesn't like? Has he been lying to someone? Does he like men despite having a girlfriend? Did something bad happen to him recently?
-He almost looks like he's holding on to the girl so that he won't flinch. He looks like he feels vulnerable. He feels like... Maybe, a delicate person who is required to be tough, maybe. In either case, someone is apparently asking too much of him. He's holding her way too tightly for the mood he seems to be in. Or maybe she's, like, his sister and the photograph told them to hug, and he found it weird, so he looks awkward.

The girl...
-She seems more genuinely happy than the guy.
-I'm not sure, but something in her eyes seems to say she's upset at something. Has she just forced her unwilling partner into the picture? Did her partner just do something she's angry about but she doesn't want it to show?
-Her hair leaves me perplexed. Is this a quickly arranged pathetic excuse of a hairstyle, or is it a trend of the times? The former might mean that the whole couple was forced into that event and she's just better at pretending to be happy... or that someone just messed with her hair and that's why she's upset. The latter, well doesn't mean any of that.
-Her clothes seem much more trendy than the guy's. Did the guy lose a bet? Or were girls' clothes considerably better than men's at the time?
-She's clinging to the guy much more genuinely than he does. Is the relationship one-sided? Is she trying to cheer him up? Is she just over-acting to look happy?

As for their relationship, if they're a couple (because they could very well be siblings, relatives or even friends, too), it looks like it's either one-sided, short-lived or in need of being fixed somehow... Or it could actually go well and the guy (and possibly the girl too) is having a bad day.
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Ms. OBrien CVT

Some kind of prom or dance.  The guy looks like an old version of your avatar.  They seem like a typical young couple to me.

  
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Shawn Sunshine

Quote from: Ms. OBrien on June 03, 2012, 05:19:30 PM
Some kind of prom or dance.  The guy looks like an old version of your avatar.  They seem like a typical young couple to me.

Ahh ok i better add a qualifier here, forget for the moment you think that's me, put all that aside and then what do you see.
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Amazon D

I'm an Amazon womyn + very butch + respecting MWMF since 1999 unless invited. + I AM A HIPPIE

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Shawn Sunshine

Quote from: Amazon D on June 03, 2012, 05:34:00 PM
a PINK bowtie

hehe yes, interesting isnt it?

A , well I won't say anything just yet, but I will say it is very possible a few things you have noticed is true, you seem to have the gift of discernment for sure.
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Sephirah

Interesting replies.

I'd rather not say anything since I cannot be objective. I can take a fair guess why the picture is posted, and the intent behind it. So in this context anything I say will be biased and based on knowledge of something other than the picture itself.
Natura nihil frustra facit.

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Shawn Sunshine

Quote from: Sephirah on June 03, 2012, 05:48:46 PM
Interesting replies.

I'd rather not say anything since I cannot be objective. I can take a fair guess why the picture is posted, and the intent behind it. So in this context anything I say will be biased and based on knowledge of something other than the picture itself.

I don't mind if your not objective, but it is ok if you dont want to say. I get a certain feeling you might already know the intent.
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Ms. OBrien CVT

The girl is happy, as in with her date.  The guy not so much.  The guy has a sadness in the eyes.  Maybe a sense of jealousy of the girl.

  
It does not take courage or bravery to change your gender.  It takes fear of living one more day in the wrong one.~me
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Sephirah

Quote from: ShawnTOShawnna on June 03, 2012, 05:50:56 PM
I don't mind if your not objective, but it is ok if you dont want to say. I get a certain feeling you might already know the intent.

Indeed. However, it is a very interesting experiment for how much people see based on what they already know and apply it to what they view. How much one draws on one's own feelings in a certain environment to influence their perceptions on something, even if they aren't aware they're doing it.

The interesting question is - would the replies be different if it were a different place, and a different person posting the image?
Natura nihil frustra facit.

"You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection." ~ Buddha.

If you're dealing with self esteem issues, maybe click here. There may be something you find useful. :)
Above all... remember: you are beautiful, you are valuable, and you have a shining spark of magnificence within you. Don't let anyone take that from you. Embrace who you are. <3
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Tyler

From my observation the first thing I notice is that they are not a couple. I don't think they even like each other in that way. Perhaps they are family members or close friends. The person on the right is either a rather young boy whom is tall for his age as others have said, or a rather butch woman. I am actually torn on that part. They look like they had some fun.
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A

I think people might ba a little keen to discern transgender issues from just a picture of strangers... I know it was posted on this forum, but still.
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Shawn Sunshine

QuoteThe person on the right is either a rather young boy whom is tall for his age as others have said, or a rather butch woman.

How did you come to this conclusion?  :o *edit* I am sitting here at my computer and I can't help myself I am rofl
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Shawn Sunshine

Quote from: A on June 03, 2012, 06:28:45 PM
I think people might ba a little keen to discern transgender issues from just a picture of strangers... I know it was posted on this forum, but still.

I expect to see a wide range of responses here lol  :laugh:
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GhostTown11

Tell us already! The season finale Of game of thrones is coming and now you have aroused my interest...
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Beth Andrea

I see a happy young couple (male and female), perhaps about to go to the Prom.


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