21) How has your relationship with yourself been affected since you realized you were genderqueer?
At first I became more depressed than I had been before. Once I figured out was non-binary I figured out why I felt like an alien and why I was so uncomfortable in my body, and I knew what I had to do to "fix" it (top surgery), but it seemed so far out of my reach. Once I got a date set for surgery, even before it took place, I started to feel much happier and more comfortable.
22) What is your sexual and romantic orientations? Are they affected by your gender?
Romantically, I think the word for it is demiromantic, which is a bit controversial, but it describes my experience: that I have to have some sort of personal connection to a person before I feel for them romantically. Generally it takes me at least a year of being friends with a person before I begin to fall for them. Sexually, attraction can happen much faster. And for both, I like men, but not exclusively.