Finding an SO

[Icephoenyx]

As some of you may know, I'm almost 24, post op, and I have never been in a serious long term relationship before. I'm straight, and go solely for guys, but the only guys who have been interested in me were nowhere near my type, and those who I liked have always flaked, turned out to be ->-bleeped-<-s, or turn and run once they know I'm trans.

I don't get it. I'm super girly, educated, have a decent job, take care of myself, and yet I always find myself lying to people about my relationship history because it embarrasses me.

Granted, I was living in the wrong body for the first 22 years of my life, during which I didn't date because I knew it would just complicate things with transition. But now I'm on a few sites, I go out when I'm invited, and I'm involved in fitness groups. What more can I do? Any general advice?

[mementomori]

so the guys are completely into you and interested before you disclose that you are trans ? surely not every guy cares about that

[Alainaluvsu]

That's interesting... the guys I tell always tell me "If you had the operation, I'd go with you in a heartbeat" ... but then again who knows, some guys may be worried about having a kid that shares the same DNA as their lifelong partner or something. Guys are weird

No offense guys

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[Angelique1994]

That's interesting... the guys I tell always tell me "If you had the operation, I'd go with you in a heartbeat" ... but then again who knows, some guys may be worried about having a kid that shares the same DNA as their lifelong partner or something. Guys are weird

No offense guys

... yay 1000 posts

guys tell me the same thing, its so annoying lol