As some of you may know, I'm almost 24, post op, and I have never been in a serious long term relationship before. I'm straight, and go solely for guys, but the only guys who have been interested in me were nowhere near my type, and those who I liked have always flaked, turned out to be ->-bleeped-<-s, or turn and run once they know I'm trans.
I don't get it. I'm super girly, educated, have a decent job, take care of myself, and yet I always find myself lying to people about my relationship history because it embarrasses me.
Granted, I was living in the wrong body for the first 22 years of my life, during which I didn't date because I knew it would just complicate things with transition. But now I'm on a few sites, I go out when I'm invited, and I'm involved in fitness groups. What more can I do? Any general advice?
