Ozma, you look great 🙂 don't call him, let him do the work. Men don't usually respond well to challenges that are not challenging enough.
Regarding my earlier comment, I wasn't trying to start a fight. I was mearly pointing out that the way the comment was worded could very easily be misconstrued as a comment on "passabilty" I think it's important to word statements like that carefully as this forum in particular is home to quite a wide cross section of transsexual and "transgender" people.