Quote from: Chamillion on July 05, 2012, 02:32:31 AM
You're definitely not alone mate.
I think the reason many of us have more top dysphoria is because we know there's a solution out there. Top surgery is the perfect answer to that dysphoria. But with bottom stuff, it's more complex. I can only speak for myself, but I honestly think the reason I have no lower dysphoria is because I've accepted the fact that there's no surgery that accomplishes what I'd want. If there's no realistic solution to it, then I have to find a way to accept it or I'll go crazy. If there was an option that achieved what I wanted, I'm sure I'd experience dysphoria about it as I wouldn't let myself just accept what's there. So if you're already on that level of non-acceptance, it makes total sense IMO.
I agree. If I could snap my fingers and have a fully functioning penis, I would. But, that's not the reality so I just deal with what I have and I'm ok with it considering the options.