Am I alone?

[TheAwesomePrussia]

So far everyone I've told about this, even my therapists, says it seems odd. But for me, bottom surgery is my highest priority.
Is there anyone else on this board who could really care less about top surgery, but want bottom surgery ASAP?

[King Malachite]

It's funny that you should mention that because I was looking at some bottom surgery stuff online.  You are certainly not alone man!  Honestly I care more about bottom surgery than top surgery.  I just feel like crap when I try to get off but can't because my downstairs area isn't what it should be.  It feels like I am being denied a basic human right and that is just plain sick and cruel.

Like most guys I'm going to deal with top surgery first.  I have large boobs that need to go.  I wouldn't say I could care less about top surgery because I do hate my chest.  However I just view it as something need to be done.

Bottom surgery is something that will happen in my future.  If I could have it today I would gladly go for it.  I cannot imagine having these wrong parts for the rest of my life.

[~RoadToTrista~]

Why would it be weird? I mean I care more about having a vag than boobs, lolz. Not that I don't care, I would love having them, but my boob dysphoria is actually very minimal and doesn't bother me as much as other parts of my body. Well now it is because I'm talking about it -.- lolz

Plus, in your pic it doesn't even look like you have much trouble hiding them.

[Morgan.]

Personally, top surgery is a much bigger preference over bottom surgery - mainly because I have certain things I'd like to do and having top surgery would allow me to do them/be more comfortable in doing them. I also would rather wait for bottom surgery to become a little more advanced etc. etc. before I do it. That's just me though. I'm sure you are not alone at all bud.

[Adam (birkin)]

I can see why you feel that way. personally I am going for top, just because for me, it's more about what is there and wrong, than what is missing. When something I want isn't there (the penis), it's mostly easy enough ignore, but when there is something there that I just can't get rid of...it sticks in my head.

[Natkat]

I dont really have the felling myself But I know one guy who (even when he dont really want bottom surgery) has more bottom dyshoria than top, as I heard.

[onep1ece7]

I don't think it is odd or weird and I am surprised your therapist would voice that opinion...I think for every guy they have their own internal dysphoria of certain body parts, some its their face, some chest, some bottom, some thighs...it just depends on the person and what makes the dysphoric...

[supremecatoverlord]

For me, both are equally as necessary, but top surgery is bound to come first simply because it is usually less of an expense.

[wheat thins are delicious]

For me, both are equally as necessary, but top surgery is bound to come first simply because it is usually less of an expense.

Lately I have to agree.  I try not to think about what's in my pants because it's bound to make me feel more ->-bleeped-<-ty.  I may never be able to get it because by the time I can get the money saved I might be too old to actually go through such a surgery.

[mm]

I have thought about which surgeries I would like to have and what order alot. Bottom surgery would sure nice to have something I liked down there.  I think top, hyster, then bottom will be my order as of now.  I need top surgery so I can get rid of binders and pass so much easier.  I hope for great results so I can go swimming topless and noone easily knowing I had surgery. 

[wheat thins are delicious]

so I can go swimming topless and noone easily knowing I had surgery.

Even if someone notices your scars it's unlikely their mind will jump straight to transsexualism as the reason. 

[mm]

Correct Andy, that is what I think too.  I will probably need full incisions for top surgery, but I hope the scars heal so they aren't obvious when the chest hair grows over them.

[TheAwesomePrussia]

I really don't have much to hide up top. When I lay down or lift my arms I look completely flat chested. But both being legal and having sex without a strap-on are huge wants for me. I feel like what I have is a painful, gutwrenching deformity. And the surgery I'm looking at is more than sufficient to me. It's hard for me to really see what people mean when they say it's not good quality. I have an underworks swimsuit and honestly think just testosterone and exercise would be enough to make my chest presentable without a binder.
If I had just enough for top surgery, I'd sooner put it in a CD and save up for bottom surgery than waste it on a surgery I feel is just a "touch up". Later I'd like it, just to smooth things out, but it's not on my priority list.

[mm]

TheAwesomePrussia, are you nipples smaller enough that they would pass as guy nipples without surgery?  Mine are large enough that I definitely need them made smaller along with the mounds reduced.

[TheAwesomePrussia]

Yes. My nipples are about the size of a nickel. I still wear a binder, but when I'm with close friends I'll go topless. Like at bonfires and camping, or playing in the woods or a creek.

[Nygeel]

I really don't have this. I feel like T has improved my relationship with my lower bits a whole friggen lot.

[Traivs]

I completely understand where your coming from though i have a large chest and would like it to be gone i think that having a penis would make a bigger difference for me. I don't know I have huge issues with my lower area's and wish they were changed more than i think about my chest. 

[TheAwesomePrussia]

I really don't have this. I feel like T has improved my relationship with my lower bits a whole friggen lot.

I can see that. I know it's improved how I feel about the upper part of my lower bits, but it's done nothing for the disgusting hole below it.

[Darrin Scott]

I may be in the minority, but I'm not bottom dysphoric at all. My chest on the other hand....my girlfriend can't even see that.

[Chamillion]

You're definitely not alone mate.

I think the reason many of us have more top dysphoria is because we know there's a solution out there. Top surgery is the perfect answer to that dysphoria. But with bottom stuff, it's more complex. I can only speak for myself, but I honestly think the reason I have no lower dysphoria is because I've accepted the fact that there's no surgery that accomplishes what I'd want. If there's no realistic solution to it, then I have to find a way to accept it or I'll go crazy. If there was an option that achieved what I wanted, I'm sure I'd experience dysphoria about it as I wouldn't let myself just accept what's there. So if you're already on that level of non-acceptance, it makes total sense IMO.