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Started by Diane Elizabeth, July 07, 2012, 09:39:11 PM

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Diane Elizabeth

     I am curious as to how you were able to finance your GRS.  I am looking at how to get the money so I can get "one of the those" before I am put into a retirement home.  The most obvious is to plan ahead and save up for it.  My problem is that all of mine goes to paying off debts except a few buck for gas and food.  I can save about $100 a month if I am liucky not to have an emergency need for the cash.  Credit cards are mostly maxed.  Not sure where to begin.
Having you blanket in the wash is like finding your psychiatrist is gone for the weekend!         Linus "Peanuts"
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cindianna_jones

I financed mine with three high interest rate loans. I had no idea how it would get paid for after the fact. Fortunately, I was successful in fighting my health insurance company. I don't know that would work these days. The other thing is that I didn't get any extras at the time. No FFS or trache shave.
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Hikari

Well, I am not that far along in my transition, I certainly havent paid for srs yet, but I do know a thing or two about saving.

As you mentioned saving up money and having the cash on hand to cover it is the most straight forward method. Look at it like this revenue - expenses = potential savings rate (r-e=p for simplicity's sake). So if you cannot reduce e then perhaps it is possible to raise r, basically i found at my last job no matter what i did within reason there was no way to reduce my exspenses enough to really save, so increasing my income was the only way.

Of course, there are ways aside from traditional jobs to raise money, there have been a few people who ran blogs that had srs donations, and while i cannot say how successful such a thing would be. A friend told me I should raise money with a bake sale, despite how cliche that sounds gathering some friends and doing something to raise money isn't such a bad idea.

Our society is also driven by credit, I have heard of a few people paying for ffs with thier credit card, now you say you are mostly at your credit limits but, getting enough extra credit to afford it is likely easier than getting enough cash to afford it.

There are also illegal or unethical things, the most common I can think of are private student loans that are taken out and spent on srs rather than school. I dont think people should co.wider doing anything more unethical than this, I doubt for example very many bank robbers get away these days.

There is also health Insurance, some policies do indeed cover it, though I am not versed on the particulars I am sure others here are more helpful with that.
15 years on Susans, where has all the time gone?
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cindianna_jones

I answered the question directly. I suppose that I should also note that I worked hard prior to transition to get an engineering degree. I did have a way to pay my bills and save money. Had I not been able to cover those loans with insurance money, I'm sure that I could have managed to pay the loans off in a couple years. I don't know how anyone can get by without an advanced education (college or other training) even without the GID issues.

When people ask me what their top priority should be in taking this path, I always recommend college or trade school. It should be the first and foremost on their list.

Cindi
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Diane Elizabeth

   Thanks for all your responses.  I have no one but myself to blame for my financial predicament.  Tried investing in real estate and now just barely keeping the mortgage up.  Credit cards are in debt management.  Getting near the end of my stress rope, financially. Next step may be bankruptcy. 
Having you blanket in the wash is like finding your psychiatrist is gone for the weekend!         Linus "Peanuts"
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AbraCadabra

Quote from: Diane Elizabeth on July 08, 2012, 07:41:09 AM
   Thanks for all your responses.  I have no one but myself to blame for my financial predicament.  Tried investing in real estate and now just barely keeping the mortgage up.  Credit cards are in debt management.  Getting near the end of my stress rope, financially. Next step may be bankruptcy.

Eish, as the saying goes:  "A woman always needs rescue..." now could it be, why we all like to get so worked up to look good/pretty? You bet! :)

I worked in consulting for years, now have spent most savings on transition and ... turned into yet another girl in need of rescue.
Whoever was it that said it was easy? Point them out so we may flog them!

Axélle
Some say: "Free sex ruins everything..."
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crazy old bat

I turned down the money for it from my dad 6 years ago because I felt he needed it more than I needed surgery at the time. He had a lot of medical bills due to cancer. I own my house, no mortgage and it was completely rebuilt/upgraded and elevated after a major hurricane surge damaged it in '03. I plan to keep working my minimum wage job to keep living until the market picks up enough and then sell it, get my surgery and start over elsewhere with a smaller house and away from the damned coast.
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peky

Quote from: Jaime on July 08, 2012, 09:55:59 AM
I turned down the money for it from my dad 6 years ago because I felt he needed it more than I needed surgery at the time. He had a lot of medical bills due to cancer.

You honor our community! Hope G-d will bless you with a long, happy, healthy, and prosperous life.
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Ms. OBrien CVT

In '08, my ex and I separated.  We sold the house and I had the funds.  But I need a place quick to live in and I got talked into buying out my ex in our trailer.  $30,000 gone.  Then a friend need a place, so I helped her out.  $11,000 gone. 

Now I am living, barely on a part time job, going to school.

I have no idea when or if I will ever have the chance to pay for SRS.  But a girl can hope.

  
It does not take courage or bravery to change your gender.  It takes fear of living one more day in the wrong one.~me
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peky

Rumor is my company health plan may cover SRS next year or the year after...I am keeping my fingers crossed
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GhostTown11

Quote from: Ms. OBrien on July 08, 2012, 10:15:51 AM
In '08, my ex and I separated.  We sold the house and I had the funds.  But I need a place quick to live in and I got talked into buying out my ex in our trailer.  $30,000 gone.  Then a friend need a place, so I helped her out.  $11,000 gone. 

Now I am living, barely on a part time job, going to school.

I have no idea when or if I will ever have the chance to pay for SRS.  But a girl can hope.

I'm confident you'll get there, it may just take a little longer than you thought ^-^
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