Hi Madison,
Another big Aussie welcome to Susan's family. As no doubt you already know, there is a mountain of information, resources and friendships for you here. Your SO may also be interested in the SO section, as it may answer a lot of her concerns. Your wife sounds like a real keeper. Hope the journey is not too rough for both of you.
Look forward to hearing more of your story in time to come, but in the meantime, be safe, well and happy.
Lotsa huggs
Catherine