Coming from the other side I know how you feel and yes it does get to me a lot that no matter how many surgeries I get or hormones I take that I will never be a biological man. My chromosomes will always be female. My bones will always be female and I will die a biological female and I will never be able impregnante a woman like a biological male. It sucks big time.
HOWEVER we are so much more than just bundles of chromosomes and bones. Biological does NOT equal better. A ciswoman is no better than a transwoman. You are a woman. It's simple as that. Not all women in the world share the same experiences and every woman is different. There are white women, black women, Asian women, Hispanic women, Indian women, poor women, rich women, skinny women, large women, old women, young women, cis women, transwomen, sick women, healthy women, famous women, married women, divorced women, women with kids, women without kids, women with blue eyes, women with brown eyes, women with green eyes, women who are blind, tall women, short women, women who can't reproduce, women who produce too much, women with goals, women without goals, women who hate life, women who live life, women with an office job, women with a blue collar job, women activists, women with long hair, women with short hair, women with no hair, women with medium length hair, women with attitudes, nice women, women with more testosterone, women with pets, women without pets, women who like to swim, women with birth defects, and the list goes on and on.
The best thing to do is to live your life as the woman you always were and to focus on the achievable things. We could focus on being transgender forever and how our lives are different than cis people but focusing on that only cuts into the time where we can try and live our lives as most adjacent to our desired sex as possible until futher medical advances.
