time to tell mum what to say??

[TGnatasha]

im begining to thingk its time to tell my mum. i recon she wont have a problem about it and i beleive she already knows, when i was little all te way through to now i used to draw really good sketches that were slightly girly and i used to write my wish in a love heart on a tree but a couple of times she found them and it was really awkward but she does support the lgbt community on facebook and other places on the net, im just afraid of her telling my dad and my grandperants aswell as all my friends. my friends i dont really know about, i only have three boys as friends but i mostly hang out with them they are between a week and a year older then me but they are classic teenage boys the ones who at a sleepover want to watch porn go out damageing property and doing drugs (dumb stuff). only one of my friends i thing is safe to tell but he is a HUGE blabber mouth i asked him what he said about homosexuals and trannsexuals and he said he doesnt care, Do you think he would if he new the truth bout me? and what should i say to my mum any ideas would be greatly appreciated?

[gennee]

Just tell her the truth. I did this when I told my wife. Naturally, she was shocked.  Whatever her  reaction, give her time to digest what shre with her.

[TGnatasha]

but im only 14 whatif she kicked me out id be screwed..

[Krystal]

Honestly, you're the only one that knows your mum. Does she have bigotry issues? Has she ever said anything negative about LGBT community or persons? Has she ever told you she loves you no matter what? Has she ever come to your defence?

It's up to you to decide when and what to tell her. Complete honesty is ALWAYS the best way to go. As Gennee said, give her time afterward to digest.

I am not trying to push you either way, please don't think that. This is the major issue that will effect your lifelong happiness. You know who you are, is it time others in your life knew? You're still young.