Men hitting on you. . .

[Urban Christina]

Ugh, so many questions. I'm just interested in hearing your experience. Do you remember the first time you were hit on as a woman? If you are pre-op and a guy hits on you; do you tell him the truth upfront? How did it feel to finally have men hitting on you? Bet it feels great but were you nervous the first few times since you weren't used to it, if you know what I mean. . . when do you know you look 100% female to men!

[snowboarderchic]

Haahaa! this is a great topic! I was at work and my snowboard boots kept coming untied. One of the other instructors started to help me and pulled up the leg of my snow pants and holding my leg and putting my boot on. he was saying I had great legs! It was really a bizarre experience for me then! It caught me completely off guard!
I wasn't really out at the time, (don't broadcast that I'm trans) so he didn't know then, but he knows now and one of my good friends at work!

[Constance]

I was still legally married when I got hit on by some guy on the street and I just told him I was married and therefore uninterested.

[Kelly J. P.]

 I don't tell guys until the first or second date.

But yeah. I get creepy guys hitting on me a lot... the cute ones that I want are always taken. </3

[henrytwob]

AS a cis female, heterosexual, trying to transition to FTM, look at it this way. If the guys are hitting on you, you've arrived!!!

it is one of the difficult things about being female, stick around, and I'm sure you will get to experience all the other "great " things about being a female. Oh Wait, you won't ever have to worry about a period.

Sorry for the flip presentation. You will get used to guys being jerks around you, it is just a part of female life.

[MariaMx]

Yes, I remember the first time it happened. I was in a football pub (that's where they friends I was with wanted to go) and some guy hanging out with a couple of friends by the bar started hitting on me. This was around the time I just started to pass, but I didn't know it, so I thought he was mocking me. I said something very unpleasant to him and he looked really confused :/ It wasn't until later I realized he was for real.

Usually I'd just play along for a while and then cut them loose, so no point in telling anyone. There was this one guy however that was totally annoying. He wouldn't take a hint, so finally I told him just to see what would happen. He got really pissed and said it was unnecessary to make up stupid stories like that just to get rid of him

I love it when guys hit on me, but since I'm married and don't go out much anymore it doesn't happen very much anymore. Last time was some drunk guy with a mullet at Losers' Lounge in Laughlin. I really should get out more :/