Annie
Welcome to Susan's!
I am a mtf in transition now for the last 2 1/4 yrs, and happily married, still to the amazingly wonderful woman I married 3 decades ago. Although a number of people here would suggest I am my wife's 'girlfriend', nothing could be further from the truth. Truth is......I am still the same person inside I always was. The person she married is still in there, smiling through a somewhat milder, softer face. We have a better relationship than any other couple I know, ts or not.
Our lovelife is private, but I will assure you, is more joyful and enjoyable than ever. It would be helpful if more people would relate their positive stories of marriage survival during and after transition.
Bev