Hi Davina ,
A big Aussie welcome to Susan's family. It's good of you to drop in and say "Hi". Hope you like it here, and you stay for a while.
There is a mountain of information, resources and friendship waiting for you here, you just need to jump in and start talking.
Don't worry too much about labels. Annah says, "Labels are for candy packets", and she's no doubt right. Just be who you are, and you'll go a long way. After all, this IS a 3 dimensional spectrum we live in.
Looking forward to hearing more of your story in time to come, but in the meantime, be safe, well and happy.
Lotsa huggs
Catherine