lost my focus

[bballshorty]

I can't concentrate on anything any more. I can't read, can't study, can't eat, can't sleep, can't watch a movie, can't run, can't play basketball etc. Every time I try, I just GIVE UP. Now I don't even feel like finishing this stupid post ugh

[Devlyn]

Well, what's eating you up? Address that first. Hugs Devlyn

[bballshorty]

My gf broke up with me in May. A few months before that she got really "close" to this other guy, and guess who's going out with her now =.= I guess it's not her fault either because she tried to stay with me, but I guess she unconsciously resented me and treated me really badly before we broke up (she wanted kids the normal way and I couldn't give her that, but she didn't want hurt me either). I guess I'm letting the pain of this mess control me.

[Devlyn]

Well, naturally that's going to impact you. I am not a Doctor, but I think the lack of focus is just your mind trying to keep you from dwelling on any one thing, especially that one painful thing. Make sense? I would bet that it's a temporary thing. Hugs Devlyn

[bballshorty]

Thanks a lot, Devlyn =) You've always been there for me when I needed help on several occasions, and all I can say is that I'm glad I have this community to keep me going.

[Devlyn]

I can't repay all the kindness I''ve received here at Susans, but I can try! Everyone in this family cares about their adopted relatives. It's what makes the place work! Hugs Devlyn

[Jamie D]

Move over, Dr. Phil.

You have competition from Boston.

BBall, you need time to grieve about your relationship.  And time heals.