I can't concentrate on anything any more. I can't read, can't study, can't eat, can't sleep, can't watch a movie, can't run, can't play basketball etc. Every time I try, I just GIVE UP. Now I don't even feel like finishing this stupid post ugh

Well, what's eating you up? Address that first. Hugs Devlyn

My gf broke up with me in May. A few months before that she got really "close" to this other guy, and guess who's going out with her now =.= I guess it's not her fault either because she tried to stay with me, but I guess she unconsciously resented me and treated me really badly before we broke up (she wanted kids the normal way and I couldn't give her that, but she didn't want hurt me either). I guess I'm letting the pain of this mess control me.

Well, naturally that's going to impact you. I am not a Doctor, but I think the lack of focus is just your mind trying to keep you from dwelling on any one thing, especially that one painful thing. Make sense? I would bet that it's a temporary thing. Hugs Devlyn

Thanks a lot, Devlyn =) You've always been there for me when I needed help on several occasions, and all I can say is that I'm glad I have this community to keep me going.

I can't repay all the kindness I''ve received here at Susans, but I can try! Everyone in this family cares about their adopted relatives. It's what makes the place work! Hugs Devlyn

Move over, Dr. Phil.

You have competition from Boston.

BBall, you need time to grieve about your relationship.  And time heals.