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Started by MaxAloysius, September 01, 2012, 12:58:41 PM

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sonopoly

Especially if they are a sociopath - as I said before just doesn't ring true...
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MaxAloysius

I didn't ask for help because I don't need it, I was looking for shared experiences.

And I responded the way I did because I don't like being judged and discredited by people who know nothing about me or the things that I've been through. I'm sorry if that offended some or all of you, it wasn't my intention.

Quote from: aleon515 on September 02, 2012, 11:34:33 PM
I'm not too shocked, more surprised that someone would admit to it than anything.

Now I know why more don't.
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Brooke777

Openly admitting to a psychological condition is usually not the best thing. Most people who are not educated in such matters will not be able to provide help as they do not understand the conditions and it's intricacies. I am guessing there are many more people on this site that have shared the experiences you mentioned in the original post, they just do not wish to comment on it for whatever reason.
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darknavy

Hey I'm Derrick and my dad is a psycologist so I showed him this thread and he wrote a long reply. I'll post it now then.  ;D
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Hello Bane. I work within the field of psychology and I'm afraid you have either dealt with a highly incapable therapist that has never even read the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (The DSM) or you are lying. Most likely you are lying and think you have Antisocial Personality Disorder (I don't know precisely why, maybe because you think it is 'cool' or 'manly') and you would like to find other transsexuals that possibly have it as well. You say that you have been diagnosed to add credibility to your statement.

To prove to everyone that you are infact a 'sociopath' you use the criteria for Antisocial Personality Disorder (APD) and tick off yes or no. That's not how a person is diagnosed, it's not that simple. To actually meet even just one of those criteria you have to answer 10+ question to see whether you truly meet that criterion or not. You do not just answer yes or no.

Also, let's go through the must to obtain a diagnosis.
You must
...be an adult (18+).
...have a history of Conduct Disorder (since the age of 15).
...have had previous history of behavioural problems (prior to 15).

I would like to mention if your problems are caused by more specific medical or mental health problems that affect your behaviour, such as drugs, alcohol, anxiety, depression, etc, then a personality disorder is not correct diagnosis. You will have to check this yourself because I do not know whether you have had, or have, such problems.

Also, one thing that leads me to believe you have self-diagnosed is because you would never be diagnosed with 'high-functioning sociopathy' because there is no such thing. In fact, you would never be diagnosed with sociopathy today, you would be diagnosed with APD, but you would also never be diagnosed with 'high-functioning Antisocial Personality Disorder'. But if you have been diagnosed by a professional, I want you think about the fact that just because someone is a professional doesn't mean they don't make mistakes. It is possible for professionals to give the wrong diagnosis. It's not as if they have unlimited access to your thoughts and feelings, they'll have to go by what you tell them. They can also be wrong.

I would like to finish this with telling you, I am not writing this to upset you or to argue with you, Bane, I am only worried for others who will talk to the same therapist you did and get some outrageous diagnosis. It's not very good if there's a therapist roaming around telling people they are 'high-functioning sociopaths'. And in worst case scenario you are lying and I've only educated a few people about diagnosing someone with a personality disorder. Though there is a lot more to it, to diagnose someone with a PD, and nobody should self-diagnose. You may believe you know yourself best but it can be hard seeing yourself objectively. You may end up seeing yourself the way you want to be rather than the way you actually are. Please, if you believe you have APD talk to a professional, and Bane, if you actually have been diagnosed by a therapist get a second opinion from another professional. I'm sure they will be just shocked as I am (that you were diagnosed with 'high-functioning sociopathy').
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Kentrie

I've suspected I'm a sociopath for a long time. I don't feel empathy, don't know right from wrong but I know what society deems is right and follow that and I can change my personality and look to whatever I need it to be. I can change it instantly if the situation calls for it. I have an evil streak though that I'm not going to get into and if a situation calls for it, like if someone is saying insulting stuff to me and I'm off my meds then I insult back and they end up crying and I feel satisfied by that. I'm not violent though unless someone attacks me and then I go off the deep end, And I'm able to get through a dangerous situation with ease because I can change to whatever I need to be and I can hide myself and blend in remarkably. I can always say what a person wants to hear on any topic and If I lie to someone then the truth never comes out because every time I'm with a person I remember every lie I've ever told them. I've got out of all the violent situations I could have been in by doing this. I also seem to lack the ability to feel real love. I have feelings for people but my feelings toward them go by public appearance, or if I have a goal and they can help me achieve it then I have positive feelings. I'm quite selfish actually. I feel indifferent to everyone and don't want them around me unless they have something I want or need or if they can be any help to me then I shift into whatever look or personality I need to have in order to befriend them. And I know all this somehow. I subconsciously change into it without trying and then when I get what I need my feelings go away and I shift back to my most constant personality which is very dull and blank. Like right now I know that sounds horrible because I've learned people don't like people like that and my personality is already to shift into one that that acts like I regret what I've said and that I'm trying to sugar coat it but I can stop that from happening if I tell myself not to.
Push it baby, push it baby, out of control, I got my gun cocked tight and I'm ready to blow. ;)
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supremecatoverlord

Quote from: darknavy on September 05, 2012, 08:33:28 AM
Hey I'm Derrick and my dad is a psycologist so I showed him this thread and he wrote a long reply. I'll post it now then.  ;D
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I'd like to thank you for your father's post.
It encapsulates why I'm skeptical of Bane's post as well as the professional that he is seeing.
I'd like to add that even if he did get his diagnosis from a professional, even despite his diagnosis being more than slightly archaic, it wouldn't necessarily mean he is seeing a fully competent one and/or add any true ethos to his claims unless he had already consulted several professionals.
Meow.



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