I guess I'm a bit different than most of the folks. For me, being seen as female while still legally and socially male was WAY less scary/upsetting than the idea of being legally and socially female and being seen as male. Maybe because I had to deal with being periodically seen as female for most of my life, so I was used to that.
I waited (while on HRT) until I was completely unpassable as male before officially switching everything over. By the time I started introducing myself as Sarah and going into women's-only spaces, I hadn't successfully passed as male to a stranger in over a month.
So, ya, basically I looked like a girl. The biggest difference between then and now is that I was presenting a lot more feminine. I had hair down to my shoulders (now it doesn't reach my jaw), and was wearing some pretty different clothing. And I hadn't had my facial surgery yet, so my face looked a bit different.
I'm sorry, I'm not comfortable posting pictures of myself on Susan's.