After 18 years of marriage, 2 kids and a lot of time and confusion, I am getting divorced. as much as I hate to say it, and as many other reasons and random occurrences going on, I believe my transvestism to be at the bottom of it. I have been emotionally disconnected from my wife for a couple years by now and infidelity has randomly occurred on both sides. It was to a point where I was supporting her live in boyfriend for a total of 4 months as I recovered from a shattered heel surgery sustained while in taekwondo with my boy. The last month in my home we had decided to live in separate rooms and "open" the marriage. I met someone to bring around, she was just to be a friend with benefits, and our first conversations were concerning not ever having a commitment, ( She is also recently divorced), and not dealing with relationships. Well as these things go, my wife's jealousy took over and a vodka induced all out assault took place leaving me with a black eye and a shattered life. But all is not lost my friends! That was just over two months ago and Cherie and I are getting along famously, she loves my crossdressing and all out attitude on life. I am freely expressing myself, drinking less, (and not to dull my pain or urges). It's amazing what a little support and full honesty can do for your psyche! We are getting an apartment November 1st and it seems as if I have finally found the friend that I needed. Don't get me wrong, I still love my wife, but we will all be better people in the end. Thanx for reading and have a great day!
Pansy
