I definitely experience thoughts like this. I worry that it will be a long time before someone actually wants to take me on a date. It is easy getting hit on in the bar, but none of them seem to be interested in an actual relationship. They seem to only be interested in one thing. I only recently started looking, so I don't know if my fears are accurate, or just irrational. I wish you the best of luck, and if you learn a trick let me know.