Major Changes Coming...

[AbbyJamz]

Things have been pretty crazy for me over the past couple of weeks.  It has pretty much culminated with my wife and I agreeing to split up.  We are still living together right now, but it is happening sometime before the end of the year.  I just had my third therapy session on Monday.  My therapist pretty much said that I'm mentally prepared for hormones.  I have a feeling that ill get the letter before the end of next month.  I feel like things are moving so fast right now!  I'm so heartbroken and excited at the same time.  I don't want to lose my relationship with my wife, but I cannot put off transitioning any longer.  I'm just kind of in a weird place right now.

[justmeinoz]

Sounds like a hug is needed, so have a virtual one.  Hopefully when the dust settles you and your wife can still be friends, maybe even BFFs.

[AbbyJamz]

Thanks, justmeinoz.  Everyday so torturous for many reasons.  I wish I could just fast forward to 3 or 4 years from now so that all of this could just be bad memories.  My stomach is all twisted up in knots almost constantly these days.

[kathy bottoms]

Sorry about this split.  But, what's done is done, and please don't dwell on it too much.  Four weeks ago when I had the "big talk" with my wife she decided go day by day until she decides what to do.  I suspect we ultimately will seperate and not divorce, so I just take things the way they are, and work out where I want to live when we do split up.

Take care.
Kathy

Oh.  And even with the troubles here's an early congratulations on the upcoming referral letter.  🙂

[AbbyJamz]

Thanks for the reassuring words.  I know the toughest part is over, but there will still be some rough spots for sure.  I actually came out to my supervisor at work today.  With everything kind of falling in place for some actual physical changes to take place sooner than later, I figured I might as well get it over with.  She seemed taken aback but was supportive.  Coming out is just getting easier and easier.  What isn't getting easier is living as a guy.  I know patience is the name of the game, but I'm so ready to proceed.  I guess I'm getting restless due to the drastic choices made in the past couple of days.

[Brooke777]

I am sorry for your situation. It sounds very similiar to mine, so I have a good idea how you feel. Feel free to pm me if you want to talk.