The postman came first thing in the morning today while I was still wearing a pink nightie and no binder (it's comfy ok) and said "are you Mr. <partners name>?" when I opened the door, didn't sound like he was being sarcastic or anything. I said yes and he handed over the parcel and went on his way. So confused xD how on earth did I manage to come across as a guy in a situation like that, he must not have had his coffee yet.