What made you unhappy today? v2.0

[StellaB]

Thanks everyone. I was more shocked than anything else. It kind of backfires on him though, as he has his unit on an industrial estate where I know people.

[Shang]

Every single ->-bleeped-<-ing thing.  Today is not a good to be me because of my mood.  It's soured slowly since about noon today.

[calico]

My fricken room-mates neglecting my cat while I was away.. I left specific instructions and purchased exact amount to fill the litter box. It was simple every 4-6 days throw away all litter in box and refill, what happens? oh they apparently haven't been doing that and just scooping out the heavy stuff and adding more litter, there was 5" of urine soaked litter in the bottom of his pan I just literally used a spatialla to clean out the box, ended up throwing it away (the spatiala that is) How fricken hard is it? I mean really

[Charley Bea(EmeraldP)]

I looked after a friends place and cat for two weeks earlier this year, not hard at all. Are they lazy or just not as caring room-mates/friends? Ie; don't deserve responsibility if simple tasks are that difficult to handle. Is your cat alright?

[calico]

I looked after a friends place and cat for two weeks earlier this year, not hard at all. Are they lazy or just not as caring room-mates/friends? Ie; don't deserve responsibility if simple tasks are that difficult to handle. Is your cat alright?

Yea he is ok and much happier now that his poop box is cleaned out, at least they fed and watered him, next time I'll just take him with me

[Charley Bea(EmeraldP)]

Good to hear.

Still upset about having to back out of going to a live performance(club concert) with friends because my anxiety decided to kick my butt this week.

I feel like I have let them down.

[Jess42]

Someone actually called corporate and said I made sexual advances towards them. Luckily, the owner/president and my supervisor did not believe it for a minute. Makes me wonder about how screwed up people are though.

I guess that is why I do what I do. Office has no more than 6 people working in it and everyone knows everyone else pretty much on a personal level. Just about anything said about anything other than work related, could be misconstrued as sexual harrasment. I am not out yet but with my long hair and short arm hair or hairless legs, I get called all kinds of things in a joking manner although never mean. I just play along with it and keep'em guessing. Plus I'm not there all the time.

I know I could never work in a corperate environment. Seems way to stressful as in having to watch what you say all the time or if someone just don't like you they can cause you problems just like this. Not to mention, I'd probably be in the HR department all the time. Gotta love truckdrivers though, even though we don't have much office ettiquette. There's really not too much that bothers us either. About the only sexual harrasment I get is from myself in the way of being called a stupid bitch when I mess up or miss a turn.

[Renee]

I guess that is why I do what I do. Office has no more than 6 people working in it and everyone knows everyone else pretty much on a personal level. Just about anything said about anything other than work related, could be misconstrued as sexual harrasment. I am not out yet but with my long hair and short arm hair or hairless legs, I get called all kinds of things in a joking manner although never mean. I just play along with it and keep'em guessing. Plus I'm not there all the time.

I know I could never work in a corperate environment. Seems way to stressful as in having to watch what you say all the time or if someone just don't like you they can cause you problems just like this. Not to mention, I'd probably be in the HR department all the time. Gotta love truckdrivers though, even though we don't have much office ettiquette. There's really not too much that bothers us either. About the only sexual harrasment I get is from myself in the way of being called a stupid bitch when I mess up or miss a turn.

I work in a convenience store that is more like a local grocery/gas station than many convenience stores. Its part of a chain that is owned by a family. Lots of people, most regulars, and even my boss says everyone likes me, so she  can't figure out who decided to cause trouble. She also can't fathom me doing anything like that. We talked about it today when she stopped in to get gas for her car.

Now comments from customers, I've gotten plenty of, but benign for the most part and almost never negative. Most people that don't know me from before really don't usually pick up that I'm trans or anything, although I find it hard to believe, but their behavior towards me indicates it.

I'm not real worried about it causing me any issues with work, but I am taking a suggestion from a friend that used to work in a state job up north and going to keep a record of any sort of off remarks of a sexual nature from anyone, just in case.  The thing with me though is that I hate being wrongly accused of something, especially that sort of accusation, kind of turns my stomach to even think about being that way with anyone to be honest.

[King Malachite]

Going through the motions of thinking about joining a forum just to reply to one post that really touched me and after I finally decide to sign up, the site requires me to click a special link sent by an email.

That email never came no matter how many times I tried with two emails. 

The illogical side of me is saying that it was just simply not meant to post my reply.  I'm not accepting that, but I don't have the energy to go through all of the motions again.  Screw that.  I'll just agree with the person from afar.

[kelly_aus]

Anyone who has read my recent posts will know, but for those that missed it - my GF died this morning. 

[calico]

Anyone who has read my recent posts will know, but for those that missed it - my GF died this morning. 

OMG I am so sorry Kelly, that is very sad news to hear  - hugs - to lose someone you loved is never an easy thing to deal with but if it helps - at least she no longer is suffering, if you want to talk or need anything please feel free to PM me, again I am so sorry for your loss

[V M]

So sorry to hear of your loss Kelly 

Hugs dear 

[FTMDiaries]

Anyone who has read my recent posts will know, but for those that missed it - my GF died this morning. 

Sorry for your loss. 

[Shantel]

Anyone who has read my recent posts will know, but for those that missed it - my GF died this morning. 

Oh Kelly, I'm so sorry. I'd be there with you if it was possible...hugs!

[Adam (birkin)]

Family gathering on Sunday. Enough said.

[Shang]

My stress relief has been non-existent for the last 72 hours.   I write to calm down and there's been a total of 2 posts on Elysium in the last 72 hours and none today.  I'm wigging out.  ><;  My mood is trashed though today it was all right for a little bit.

[Edge]

What's Elysium? I hope you feel better soon.

[Renee]

Anyone who has read my recent posts will know, but for those that missed it - my GF died this morning. 

I am sorry for your loss, Kelly.

[Imreallyconfused]

Anyone who has read my recent posts will know, but for those that missed it - my GF died this morning. 

I'll pray for you and your girlfriend tomorrow and Sunday at mass.

[Constance]

Anyone who has read my recent posts will know, but for those that missed it - my GF died this morning. 

I'm so sorry Kelly. I will keep you and yours in my thoughts and prayers.