It's Finally Starting to Bother Me

[mm]

I sure wish you girls could have periods for a few months just to get the feelings of having them, PMS, needing to carry supplies, possibility of bleeding on your clothes especially light colored things, always wondering if it was time to change, and what about swimming.  I will be so glad when I can start T and then have all those parts removed and knowing that periods are then impossible for me.

[Rita]

I sure wish you girls could have periods for a few months just to get the feelings of having them, PMS, needing to carry supplies, possibility of bleeding on your clothes especially light colored things, always wondering if it was time to change, and what about swimming.  I will be so glad when I can start T and then have all those parts removed and knowing that periods are then impossible for me.

Yea but its part of the female life experience, I wish we could to.  As much as a nuisance it may become, it would be a nuisance many of us would be extremely happy to take!

We have same same nurturing instincts as any XX Female.  As much of it is the way our minds are wired.

[peky]

I did feel the "pangs" of not being pregnant, and it was hard specially when my wife was pregnant. I was soooo happy for her, and for us, but it was so hard on me. She never knew just how I felt. However, after the kids were born, I was the best "Mommy" in the world; feeding them, changing them, baths, and just loveing them so much.

I gave them -and still do- all the affection I never got, and you know what, it did help me 'heal" for all the abuse and neglect I suffer as a kid.

[Rita]

I did feel the "pangs" of not being pregnant, and it was hard specially when my wife was pregnant. I was soooo happy for her, and for us, but it was so hard on me. She never knew just how I felt. However, after the kids were born, I was the best "Mommy" in the world; feeding them, changing them, baths, and just loveing them so much.

I gave them -and still do- all the affection I never got, and you know what, it did help me 'heal" for all the abuse and neglect I suffer as a kid.

Awww thats the cutest thing I have heard all day.

[jacqueline_rose]

Yea but its part of the female life experience, I wish we could to.  As much as a nuisance it may become, it would be a nuisance many of us would be extremely happy to take!

We have same same nurturing instincts as any XX Female.  As much of it is the way our minds are wired.

It would prove to us that we are exactly what we want to be. despite the pain and discomfort, it would make us happy. I honestly want it.

[Sybil]

I sure wish you girls could have periods for a few months just to get the feelings of having them, PMS, needing to carry supplies, possibility of bleeding on your clothes especially light colored things, always wondering if it was time to change, and what about swimming.  I will be so glad when I can start T and then have all those parts removed and knowing that periods are then impossible for me.

I have had several women say this to me (you're the first guy I've seen say this, though I understand what makes you say it). This is my reply each and every time: I wish you could experience what it means not to have a period.

I would trade in less than a heartbeat.

[Constance]

I wish you could experience what it means not to have a period.

^ This.

[DanielleJ]

I remember reading something about ( I think it was Dr McGinnis) That she started taking some type of hormones and vitamins and was able to breast feed her and her partners baby ( can't remember if they adopted or not)

Hugs

[Ms. OBrien CVT]

If memory serves, DanielleJ, the baby is theirs.  Her partner became pregnant with McGinn's stored sperm.

MM, having been married three times, I can understand the troubles of having a period.  Yes I did not actually experience any of it, but I got a good instruction on what women go through.

I also can understand why you guys hate them so.

But still I would have them in a heartbeat,

[Catherine Sarah]

Hi Everyone,

Not wishing to drop a wet blanket on the negativity of not being able to Mother your child, but I guess it depends on how desperate you want to become.

If you speak to your Endo and tell him what you are trying to achieve, you will be able to achieve it as far as nursing is concerned. And remember there are options of adoption and surrogacy. How you organise those aspects is totally up to the individual and is a very personal matter.

Huggs
Catherine

[Lady Autumn]

Life is never going to be perfect for anyone, whether your trans or not. There are some XX women who can't have kids and I can't imagine what they feel is any different. (Meaning that its the same.) You are incredibly lucky to have two kids who love you.

There are some things that will always sting, but its just best to look at the possitives and all the advantages that the trans community has these days.