I noticed a change from -spiro only- for a year (Been on E for 6 months.) on my aggression but no other emotional changes. None of the "crying for no reason" I hear others mention, which I am glad! Adding E later didn't change anything. My skin changed, less body hair, mainly arms and legs. Small 34B boobs (and growing) and maybe a bit of fat moving around. If the HRT wasn't doing anything, you wouldn't be getting boobs. BTW my "sex drive" is still intact, just no morning wood etc. I wouldn't say my genitals changed much, maybe a tad, nothing that noticeable. I can say I'm not as strong now but I also don't do the sort of manual labor I used to so part of that is likely atrophy. My shoulders and upper arms aren't as big which is welcome, but again that could be from not doing things that use them, like splitting wood etc.
Just give it time.