Quote from: JoanneB on November 21, 2012, 07:45:37 PM
Unless she is readily clockable, I wouldn't say a word. Even then, I wouldn't.
BTW - The one sure fire way to end the relationship with her is to tell ANYONE without first asking her if it is OK.
Very good advice from Joanne, don't make an issue of it if its not an issue.
I would accompanied my Husband to social occasions, parties and his work gatherings etc, he would always introduce me to these people as his Wife Pauline, they don't know my history and it doesn't matter, the issue doesn't arise, Im just another guy's wife, a man will greet me with a hug or a kiss, the way they greet any woman, they'd never greet a guy like that, some of the older men might kiss my hand, an old fashion gentleman thing with older men, but its nice. The women only take notice what Im wearing, my shoes, my bag, the the color of my gown, my hair and makeup, I do the same, because Im just another woman, its all very normal.
Yes just introduce your new girlfriend to your Mum, don't be anxious, it might be just very normal with nothing to worry about, lets know how it goes.
Pauline
