I've seen a noteable amount of the "not trans enough" thing or just people straight up saying non-conforming guys don't have a right to the same treatments as those guys who are transitioning to "exclusivly" male. I got into it in a thread not too long ago here in regards to that.
To me, it's fine to have your own opinions and of course to live your life how you want to, but when you start dictating what other people can and can't do, that's stepping over the line. And I think it's directly related to people's own insecurity. And I can understand that .... if all you really want is to "pass" and you don't you want to get on T asap, you are super critical of every little aspect of yourself, and you can't understand how some guys can be ok with their chest or looking femme or whatever. But seriously, welcome to the wider world. Everyone is different and there's a ton of variety in the gender spectrum.
What's confusing to me is that there's plenty of "femanine" traits slipping into even the "cis" world. Men are into hair care products, fashion, even stuff like make up, laser hair removal etc etc. It's not just trans guys who are feeling more confident to embrace things like this. I'm not even talking about hobbies or anything I'm strictly talking looks here. But there's such a wide variety of guys out there. There's MAAB guys who hate being hairy, so they get waxed or laser hair removal but if a trans guy says he doesn't want to be hairy he gets dog piled by a bunch of other trans guys that say something like, "you can't pick and choose what you get on T! You can't be a real male if you can't handle hair blah blah blah." I don't understand how wanting to look a certain way, even if it's andro or femme, is really any different than desiring to look like an "average male" or a "macho" guy.
So in short I think the "not trans enough" is detrimental and leads to even worse behavior and inacceptance.
