If we can't promote self-medicating then I don't think we can really justify promoting other harmful practices like not eating to stop periods. Yeah some of us do it understandably, but it's not healthy and carries serious risks.
The only way I deal with my periods is to wear two pairs of tight underwear so I feel safer, dark jeans just incase, and try to forget about it as much as humanly possible. The pill has varying results and can feminise you more depending on what compound of hormones they have in them and your genetics.