Sucks. I hate therapists and have no interesting in going near one ever again in my life.
As for bottom surgery. Dude. I am asking about getting it without a letter. And bemoaning lack of inovation in the field. I'd think it's safe to assume I'm not all that happy with the equipment I've got either?
Unless you're telling me you'd reject a (let's say cost-free) surgery that'd give you genitals that look and function like cis penis or you think we don't need to improve 'cause we're perfect where we're at with our surery options then my point still stands. We could use some improvments and it'd be nice to see some innovation in the field.
Like I remember hearing something about "advancing the crura" and now... nothing. I don't know if that means "it'd never work" or "surgeons see no reason to try it". Also, if one spent the years to stretch the labia (some can get 7 inches in length) why couldn't that skin be used and thus avoid a secondary scar (since they'd be cutting all that out anyhow)? Or why can't a penis be stretched when people can apparently stretch ears, labia, lips, necks etc. (not really surgery related but I would like to know)?
I just find it irritating and I'd like to have an honest conversation about where we're at and where we could be going. Actually, I'd really like to have the conversation with someone knowleagable enough to answer some questions but I have no idea who to direct the questions to and atm I'm just venting some frustrations at how stagnant everything appears (love to be proven wrong there though). I would think that's fair. Or should I not be frustrated?