Hi Julie,
Another big Aussie welcome to Susan's family. It's good of you to drop in and say "Hi". Hope you like it here, and you stay for a while.
There is a mountain of information, resources and friendship waiting for you here, you just need to jump in start talking and ask any question you like. You're quite safe here and we are very accepting.
There can't be too much wrong with you, if you love cats. In fact that makes you one of the most intelligent people on earth. Thank you for sharing that no so good time of your life, with us. Seems to be a lot of healing has passed under the bridge. You are so lucky to have a boyfriend who is just so supportive. He sounds like a keeper. Good luck to you.
Looking forward to hearing more of your story in time to come, but in the meantime, be safe, well and happy.
Lotsa huggs
Catherine