Top surgery without bottom surgery? (My dad's views may offend people)

[Joe.]

I agree with your dad.

So if I don't get bottom surgery that makes me a girl? And nobody will ever love me if I don't get it?

[wheat thins are delicious]

So if I don't get bottom surgery that makes me a girl? And nobody will ever love me if I don't get it?

No.  Your dad is wrong.

[Simon]

I agree with your dad.

If you agree with that view you must be going through some sort of self loathing period at this point. Agreeing with that view is basically calling the majority of transguys (most do not have bottom surgery due to money, the results, or no bottom dysphoria) freaks that nobody would possibly love. Reallllly hope that is not your stance.

[Joe.]

Whilst I'm fuming about somebody possibly agreeing with that, I'd like to say that my dad no longer holds these views and he is very accepting of me.

[AdamMLP]

I see no point digging up an old thread just to put someone down and wrongly tell them that they're not a man. Let's hope this is a case of misunderstanding.

[Ruthven]

Whilst I'm fuming about somebody possibly agreeing with that, I'd like to say that my dad no longer holds these views and he is very accepting of me.

Oh well that's nice at least! 

[Antagonist]

I also want top surgery when I can get time/money/courage/etc to do it, but I have no interest in bottom surgery. I'm asexual and don't have a tremendous amount of dysphoria, so my lower half doesn't really bug me. I'm glad your dad has had this change of heart.

To paraphrase a quote I once heard: Most people aren't worth crying over and the ones that are won't make you cry.

[Nero]

I agree with your dad.

Where the hell do you get off? Given your profile pic, you either haven't transitioned yet or prefer a less conventional gender expression. So why would you come on here, drag up an old thread days before Christmas to tell a young boy you agree that he's not a man if he doesn't want bottom surgery? Are you a man even though you don't look like one?

The only reason that makes sense for you to drag up an old thread like this is you're having a hard time this holiday and decided to take it out on someone else. If that's the case, I'm sorry you're going through a hard time. But I will not allow you to take your problems out on our members. Not to mention how hypocritical this looks.