Quote from: Rachel Lynn on October 02, 2016, 09:47:31 AM
I am pretty happy with my forehead and orbital work. The fat graphs I was told will take 2 months to deflate and reflate. So I need to hold judgement. My upper lip is regaining feeling. Drinking with a straw needs to be done on the side of my mouth now because I can not get suction if the straw in in the center of my lips. I am really glad I had the lower, mid and blethoplasty face lift. My jaws are still swollen so I hope that works out. I really wanted my jowls to be flush. Right now they are not and I am not happy about that. My eyes are more almond now than before which is ok. My skin looks good. When I eat my mouth gets sore. I still have a lot of stiches in my mouth and behind my head. I do not look pretty. I look like my old self without the male features .
When I got home from Boston I sat on the edge of my bed and tears just came rolling down my face. One week later and I am disappointed but still have some optimism. If the jowls go away I will be much happier. Still not pretty but happier. If not I will get that corrected.
I have GCS and a BA in 6 weeks. I need a graph for GCS. Dr. McGinn pointed to an area above where my penis is and said you are lucky you have extra skin there ( a benefit from at one time weighing 327 pounds and now 200). She said a complication would be if the graph dies. Then she said but I think I can do it. What would happen if the graph died? The question rang in my head but I did not ask the question. I think I can do it was said in a confident way but still. I guess complications can happen with any operation. Perhaps she said that so it would be in the consultation notes and it was discussed.
I know now that opioids give me an acid stomach. So anti-acids are a must. I just sleep on opioids. I lost two days when in the hospital in Boston. Also, I was in a fog for 1.5 weeks after the operation. Was it the anesthesia or opioids or both.
Please don't despair. I have had some similar experiences, so I know how tough it is. I think a lot of girls make these laundry lists of all the procedures they want, and kind of gloss over how difficult recovery can be. I fell into that trap, I think.
I also had a fat graft to my upper lip as well as upper lip reduction, and for several days it was hard to even keep my mouth closed. I looked like a squirrel. Straws are still difficult for me to use.
I would say out of all the procedures I had done, the chin contouring/face/neck lift was the most persistently painful/uncomfortable. The pain around my ears made it impossible to sleep without narcotic pain meds. Last night (day 16) was the first time I didn't have to use my Vicodin to get to sleep. I have to wear a compression garment around my face 16 hours a day, and sleep, or even laying my head on a pillow, has been uncomfortable. The drum-tight feeling in my throat is weird and I'm constantly aware of it.
I have the same problem with the sutures in my mouth. Eating solid food tires my jaw, and I hate the feeling of trapped food around the sutures. I ate almost nothing for the first few days, and slowly graduated to a lot soup and smoothies, lol. I lost over 15 pounds the first two weeks.
Unfortunately, swelling around the neck and jaw is the last to resolve. I have a very square face right now, and it's certainly not the look I was going for. I was told it will take a couple of months or more before I see noticeable improvement. However, my face already looks decidedly feminine, without any makeup, and that was the whole point.
Hang in there, girl. You're doing so much so soon it's no wonder you feel overwhelmed sometimes. It took me about two weeks to feel like a normal person, and I still don't have a lot of stamina.
With kindness,
Terri