how to act like oneself in a relationship

[Jess42]

If you do not understand the following, do not bother to reply:
That includes people who claim to understand who then prove not to by claiming I'm not convinced of who I am and that I have a self esteem problem. Ffs people, for once can someone actually listen to me without assuming I'm lying?
Yes, it is learned behaviour. Yes, I do in fact have plenty of self esteem and, yes, I am convinced that I am who I really.

OK Edge, I'm sorry and I'll just stay out of it. 'Cause I just really don't know how to help you without insulting you. Seems you have the self esteem, the self confidence and the self conviction of who you really are. And Hon, I really don't know how else to help you. I am truly sorry and I truly feel for you and my heart breaks for you and hope you can figure it out and wish you the best.