Hi Jane,
A big Aussie welcome to Susan's family. It's good of you to drop in and say "Hi". Hope you like it here, and you stay for a while.
There is a mountain of information, resources and friendship waiting for you here, you just need to jump in start talking and ask any question you like. You're quite safe here and we are very accepting.
You'll be pleased to know you are not alone. We've even set a special place for real heroes like yourself. in the SO (Significant Others ) section. I believe there is a lot to learn and share there. I say heroes, because I believe you people show a strength and determination of character to push through some amazing boundaries to achieve a relationship that is unique. If that's not the hallmark of a hero, I don't know what is.
Looking forward to hearing more of your story in time to come, but in the meantime, be safe, well and happy.
Lotsa huggs
Catherine