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Started by JennX, January 29, 2013, 04:00:07 PM

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JennX

Quote from: DianaP on January 29, 2013, 08:13:03 PM
Anywho, JennX, I just noticed that the DMV lady said, "You're a boy?!" out loud. Did that lady out you?  ???

Kinda, sort of I suppose. The DMV was actually empty today for some weird reason... there was only two other customers at the counter with me. One of which was an older lady arguing with another DMV employee about how they misspelled her middle name... which really ticked her off for some reason. So there was really no one around to hear what she said, and I really didn't care much about what she said. Though in retrospect, I never said yes or no to her declaration. So? I just was happy to get my new DL and get out. I pass just fine, and could careless honestly... the whole experience did made me laugh though.
"If you want the rainbow, you gotta put up with the rain."
-Dolly Parton
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Jen-Jen

Wonderful stories, thank you for sharing and making me smile!
Don't judge a book by its cover! My lifes been like a country song! True love, amazing grace, severe heartbreak, buckles, boots n spurs! I 've been thrown off the bull a couple times, I keep getting up and dusting myself off! Can't give up on my happily ever after!
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Jennygirl

Awwww great post! Big smile here for you!!

Thank you for sharing :D
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Nicolette

Quote from: JennX on January 29, 2013, 07:19:53 PM
Yes, it is. Male and female physiologies are different and respond differently to meds, etc. See Tessa's post below.

And if you think that's bad... wait till after SRS, FFS, and whatever else, when you have to call your doc and schedule your first prostate exam. He'll most likely be: woman + prostate gland = confused doc.  :o

You're braver than me. I had some FFS in '96. I've been pretty stealth since. Prostate exam? This is a prerequisite to what? Ouch.
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Nicolette

Quote from: Tessa on January 29, 2013, 06:42:28 PM
Dear Tesla,  I would respectfully encourage all of us to be open with our medical providers.  As a nurse anesthetist one of my first responsibilities was to create a patient profile that includes drug use history, past surgeries etc.  Frequently folks who drink 2+ shots of ETOH daily will report only 2+ shots weekly.  We typically double what is reported.  Metabolism of drugs does vary considerably.  All experienced gas passers have had the holy moly patient that required three times the expected dose and you keep reloading syringes as fast as you can.  Better to be open than experience the dreaded "awareness under anesthesia" or have your other important medications simply ineffective.  Medical people can be arrogant and judgmental as frequently as any group of people but, we don't live with them.   We do live with the results of treatment and you deserve to have the best.

Maybe it's different in the UK? I put female down in all my paperwork, medical and insurance etc., regardless. My current surgeon knows I'm TS, but I state female in all paperwork. His own paperwork states female, but in notes buried deeper will state TS. My GP knows I'm TS, but she personally states female in all her paperwork, so when I'm passed onto another department like radiography or hematology they do not know any better. Perhaps the protocol is different in other countries? It's not something I have to worry about here, but just the thought sends my blood pressure sky high.
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Barbara Ella

Wonderful post.  Really emphasizes the reality of just being yourself and going with the flow, because the current will take you no matter what.

Barbara
He (she) who would learn to fly one day must first learn to stand and walk and run and climb and dance.
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